There is an intelligence that is higher than the genes. The genes tells you need to reproduce, follow the crowd, attack the 'enemy'.
The genes tell the woman that she needs strong male hands to give her 'security'. But the synonyms of security can be control, slavery and oppression. The woman like everyone else must have passion in herself and for herself, not from outside, to be psychologically independent and unattached, to be able to be on her own free of self-pity. That is the only way for the man and for woman alike.
If we need psychological security from the outside, be it a person, profession, organized religion or nation, it will bring a seed of fear with it.